How do you know that our son is in contact with pornography?
Saturday, March 26, 2011
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Psych. Anais Barrios Flores
As is known pornography easily run through various means: cable TV, internet and audiovisual piracy also is transferred from cell phones and emails, allowing exposure to pornographic material and acquiring it is becoming more common in children and adolescents. This is a risk factor to be considered within the scope of sex education by parents and teachers, because early exposure to knowledge and information sex can lead to a distorted perception of sexuality and charged early curiosity much anguish, uncertainty and confusion.
When a child any time now becomes aggressive and anxious, his or her behavior is showing sexualized behaviors and sex games inappropriate for their age, compulsively masturbates, assaults sexually other children, adopts a seductive behavior, expresses knowledge inappropriate for their age and ask questions that reveal knowledge about sex or shows excessive modesty or a sudden refusal to daily sexual behavior such as hugging and kissing between the parents or relatives are having behavioral indicators of who has been around or have had contact with pornography or similar information.
precisely this anxiety, uncertainty and confusion are the movers of verbal and physical behaviors that represent the signals to discover or suspect that our child is being exposed to or receives information of a pornographic or sexual.
When a child any time now becomes aggressive and anxious, his or her behavior is showing sexualized behaviors and sex games inappropriate for their age, compulsively masturbates, assaults sexually other children, adopts a seductive behavior, expresses knowledge inappropriate for their age and ask questions that reveal knowledge about sex or shows excessive modesty or a sudden refusal to daily sexual behavior such as hugging and kissing between the parents or relatives are having behavioral indicators of who has been around or have had contact with pornography or similar information. often often difficult for parents to accept this kind of experience with his son, but if kept outside for fear of doing nothing, even if they suspect may significantly harm his life and sexual development.
Barely look at some of these behaviors should seek the guidance and care from a specialist to address the situation in the most favorable, preventing increased anxiety and confusion in the child and the subsequent self-repression sex, early sexual relations or a perception full of taboos and prejudices.
Within prevention parents can avoid this situation, keeping lock cable channels, constantly monitor websites that used to visit our son and especially educating them from small to what is sexuality and healthy relationships.
is crucial to help them develop a critical awareness of sexuality, they know about the health behaviors of the same, on privacy, intimacy, affection, to know how to wait to learn more and to know your own body and learn to respect and to respect the body of others. To do this, we must be open and honest, keeping us informed, establishing a secure communication and providing information tailored to their compressibility.
action in time and with the help of a specialist is the best alternative to protect our child's psychosexual health. But most important is prevention.
psic.anaisbarrios @ gmail.com
* This article was published in March 2009 in the sitting School Press and The Regional Journal Carabobeño for this publication was expanded.
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